Oscar Wilde said that if you know what you want to be, then you inevitably become it - that is your punishment, but if you never know, then you can be anything. There is a truth to that. We are not nouns, we are verbs. I am not a thing - an actor, a writer - I am a person who does things - I write, I act - and I never know what I am going to do next. I think you can be imprisoned if you think of yourself as a noun.
y’all see the shit about the new secretary of education referring to developmentally disabled kids as “medically annoying” and then doubling down on it with a heavy dose of gaslighting in a non-apology??
there’s another really disgusting phrase in the following that I won’t repeat